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Combined
Husbands 🍆
Wives 🍑
Top 10: Yes
1
Are you open to exploring new ways to enhance your intimacy with partner within the boundaries of your faith
2
Do you think setting aside specific times to discuss intimacy with partner would improve your relationship
3
Could more time be set aside to focus on your relationship and intimacy with partner
4
Do you feel communication could be improved in the sexual relationship you have with partner
5
Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improved
6
Would incorporating prayer with partner into discussions about sex improve your intimacy and sexual relationship
7
Do you feel communication during sexual activity (signalling) with partner could be improved
8
Reading the Bible with each other could be improved or done more frequently
9
Do you feel communication after sexual activity (exchanging likes and dislikes) with partner could be improved
10
Prayer with partner could be improved or done more frequently
Top 10: No
1
Do you feel like sometimes your boundaries are being pushed in your sexual relationship with partner
2
Do you sometimes not feel respected and valued during physical intimacy with partner
3
Do you believe your physical intimacy over time with partner has not improved
4
Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sex
5
Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partner
6
Do you feel seeking guidance from a pastor or Christian counsellor could improve the emotional or physical intimacy you have with partner
7
Have partner suck on my toes
8
Receive analingus from partner
9
Our attendance at church could be improved
10
Suck on partner’s toes
Top 10: Might be willing
1
Play with ice cubes or hot stones (temperature play) with partner
2
Tickling or teasing partner with feathers
3
Strip for partner
4
Douse ourselves in oil during sex
5
Roleplay in costumes with partner
6
Give partner a lap dance
7
Be watched by partner while I masturbate
8
Be rougher during sex towards partner
9
Use flavoured lube with partner
10
Use a variety of lubricants with partner
Top 10: Already do that
1
Making love with partner with the lights on or off
2
Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partner
3
Have sex in a missionary position with partner
4
Tell jokes or funny stories with partner
5
Have breasts/nipples touched, sucked on or gently bitten by partner
6
Spooning with partner
7
Light kiss on the lips with partner
8
Have deep/meaningful conversations with partner
9
Watching a movie together or reading with partner
10
Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugging
Top 10: Want more
1
Go on date nights with partner
2
Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee together
3
Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plans
4
Nice gestures between you and partner like leaving a nice note, message or compliment
5
Do shared activities with partner like exercise, cooking, gardening etc.
6
Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugging
7
Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partner
8
Exchange romantic ideas, dreams or fantasies with partner
9
Support each other in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including exercise, diet and sleep habits
10
Have a bath or shower with partner
Top 10: Want less
1
Keep clothing on whilst having sex with partner
2
Have partner pull out
3
Go on date nights with partner
4
Have longer foreplay sessions with partner
5
Receive a hickey from partner
6
Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partner
7
Have partner give me a lap dance
8
Have sex with partner in different rooms of the home
9
Put a condom on partner
10
’69’ with partner
Yes by category
1
Spiritual Bond
2
Communication
3
Intimacy
4
Post-Sex
5
Frequency/Time
6
Location
7
Sexual Positions
8
Foreplay
9
Other
10
Romanticism
11
BDSM
12
Toys
13
Media
14
Butt Stuff
No by category
1
Butt Stuff
2
Intimacy
3
Communication
4
Media
5
BDSM
6
Spiritual Bond
7
Toys
8
Other
9
Foreplay
10
Sexual Positions
11
Location
12
Frequency/Time
13
Romanticism
14
Post-Sex
Might be willing by category
1
Toys
2
Sexual Positions
3
BDSM
4
Media
5
Other
6
Location
7
Butt Stuff
8
Foreplay
9
Frequency/Time
10
Post-Sex
11
Romanticism
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Already do that by category
1
Romanticism
2
Foreplay
3
Post-Sex
4
Frequency/Time
5
Location
6
Other
7
Sexual Positions
8
Toys
9
BDSM
10
Butt Stuff
11
Media
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Want more by category
1
Romanticism
2
Post-Sex
3
Frequency/Time
4
Foreplay
5
Location
6
Sexual Positions
7
BDSM
8
Media
9
Other
10
Toys
11
Butt Stuff
12
Intimacy
13
Communication
14
Spiritual Bond
Want less by category
1
Romanticism
2
Toys
3
Other
4
Foreplay
5
Location
6
Frequency/Time
7
Butt Stuff
8
Post-Sex
9
Media
10
BDSM
11
Sexual Positions
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Top 10: Removed questions
1
Use long-distance sex toys with partner
2
Use a butt plug during sex with partner
3
Have partner use a butt plug during sex
4
Have partner wear nipple clamps
5
Have partner edge you
6
Wear nipple clamps
7
Edge partner
8
Explore different sex positions with a book/guide with partner
9
Have partner ravish me
10
Wear earplugs or headphones during sex with partner
Removed questions by category
1
Butt Stuff
2
Toys
3
Media
4
BDSM
5
Other
6
Sexual Positions
7
Foreplay
8
Communication
9
Frequency/Time
10
Location
11
Romanticism
12
Spiritual Bond
13
Intimacy
14
Post-Sex
Top 10: Yes
1
Are you open to exploring new ways to enhance your intimacy with partner within the boundaries of your faith
2
Do you think setting aside specific times to discuss intimacy with partner would improve your relationship
3
Could more time be set aside to focus on your relationship and intimacy with partner
4
Do you feel communication could be improved in the sexual relationship you have with partner
5
Do you feel communication during sexual activity (signalling) with partner could be improved
6
Do you feel communication after sexual activity (exchanging likes and dislikes) with partner could be improved
7
Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improved
8
Would incorporating prayer with partner into discussions about sex improve your intimacy and sexual relationship
9
Reading the Bible with each other could be improved or done more frequently
10
Prayer with partner could be improved or done more frequently
Top 10: No
1
Do you feel like sometimes your boundaries are being pushed in your sexual relationship with partner
2
Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partner
3
Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sex
4
Do you sometimes not feel respected and valued during physical intimacy with partner
5
Do you believe your physical intimacy over time with partner has not improved
6
Do you feel seeking guidance from a pastor or Christian counsellor could improve the emotional or physical intimacy you have with partner
7
Have partner suck on my toes
8
Our attendance at church could be improved
9
Do you feel the emotional connection to partner during intimate moments could be improved
10
Wear nipple clamps
Top 10: Might be willing
1
Play with ice cubes or hot stones (temperature play) with partner
2
Strip for partner
3
Roleplay in costumes with partner
4
Douse ourselves in oil during sex
5
Tickling or teasing partner with feathers
6
Wear a suit or outfit for partner
7
Give partner a lap dance
8
Dress up in fancy clothes
9
Use flavoured lube with partner
10
Suck on partner’s fingers
Top 10: Already do that
1
Making love with partner with the lights on or off
2
Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partner
3
Have sex in a missionary position with partner
4
Spooning with partner
5
Have deep/meaningful conversations with partner
6
Tell jokes or funny stories with partner
7
Light kiss on the lips with partner
8
Have breasts/nipples touched, sucked on or gently bitten by partner
9
Watching a movie together or reading with partner
10
Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugging
Top 10: Want more
1
Go on date nights with partner
2
Have a bath or shower with partner
3
Do shared activities with partner like exercise, cooking, gardening etc.
4
Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plans
5
Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee together
6
Support each other in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including exercise, diet and sleep habits
7
Exchange romantic ideas, dreams or fantasies with partner
8
Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugging
9
Nice gestures between you and partner like leaving a nice note, message or compliment
10
Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partner
Top 10: Want less
1
Keep clothing on whilst having sex with partner
2
More time relaxing with partner which might include prayer, meditation, yoga, mindfulness or deep breathing exercises
3
Light kiss on the lips with partner
4
Receive a hickey from partner
5
Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partner
6
Work on projects or solve problems with partner
7
Receive a sensual massage from partner
8
Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partner
9
Go on date nights with partner
10
Listen to romantic music, make music or sing with partner
Yes by category
1
Spiritual Bond
2
Communication
3
Intimacy
4
Post-Sex
5
Frequency/Time
6
Sexual Positions
7
Location
8
Foreplay
9
Other
10
Toys
11
BDSM
12
Media
13
Romanticism
14
Butt Stuff
No by category
1
Butt Stuff
2
Intimacy
3
Communication
4
Spiritual Bond
5
Media
6
BDSM
7
Toys
8
Other
9
Foreplay
10
Sexual Positions
11
Location
12
Frequency/Time
13
Romanticism
14
Post-Sex
Might be willing by category
1
Toys
2
BDSM
3
Other
4
Sexual Positions
5
Media
6
Butt Stuff
7
Location
8
Foreplay
9
Post-Sex
10
Frequency/Time
11
Romanticism
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Already do that by category
1
Romanticism
2
Post-Sex
3
Frequency/Time
4
Foreplay
5
Location
6
Other
7
Sexual Positions
8
Toys
9
BDSM
10
Butt Stuff
11
Media
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Want more by category
1
Romanticism
2
Frequency/Time
3
Post-Sex
4
Foreplay
5
Location
6
Media
7
Sexual Positions
8
BDSM
9
Other
10
Toys
11
Butt Stuff
12
Intimacy
13
Communication
14
Spiritual Bond
Want less by category
1
Romanticism
2
Post-Sex
3
Foreplay
4
Toys
5
Butt Stuff
6
Other
7
Media
8
Frequency/Time
9
BDSM
10
Location
11
Sexual Positions
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Top 10: Removed questions
1
Use a butt plug during sex with partner
2
Have partner use a butt plug during sex
3
Use long-distance sex toys with partner
4
Have partner wear nipple clamps
5
Have partner edge you
6
Wear nipple clamps
7
Edge partner
8
Explore different sex positions with a book/guide with partner
9
Creating a video of us having sex
10
Have your mouth covered during sex with partner
Removed questions by category
1
Butt Stuff
2
Toys
3
BDSM
4
Media
5
Sexual Positions
6
Other
7
Foreplay
8
Frequency/Time
9
Location
10
Communication
11
Romanticism
12
Spiritual Bond
13
Post-Sex
14
Intimacy
Top 10: Yes
1
Are you open to exploring new ways to enhance your intimacy with partner within the boundaries of your faith
2
Do you think setting aside specific times to discuss intimacy with partner would improve your relationship
3
Could more time be set aside to focus on your relationship and intimacy with partner
4
Do you feel communication could be improved in the sexual relationship you have with partner
5
Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improved
6
Reading the Bible with each other could be improved or done more frequently
7
Would incorporating prayer with partner into discussions about sex improve your intimacy and sexual relationship
8
Praying for each other individually could be improved
9
Prayer with partner could be improved or done more frequently
10
Do you feel the level of physical affection could be improved with partner
Top 10: No
1
Do you sometimes not feel respected and valued during physical intimacy with partner
2
Do you feel like sometimes your boundaries are being pushed in your sexual relationship with partner
3
Do you believe your physical intimacy over time with partner has not improved
4
Do you feel seeking guidance from a pastor or Christian counsellor could improve the emotional or physical intimacy you have with partner
5
Suck on partner’s toes
6
Give partner analingus
7
Have partner wear nipple clamps
8
Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sex
9
Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partner
10
Have partner suck on my toes
Top 10: Might be willing
1
Play with ice cubes or hot stones (temperature play) with partner
2
Tickling or teasing partner with feathers
3
Be rougher during sex towards partner
4
Strip for partner
5
Be watched by partner while I masturbate
6
Have sex outside with partner
7
Use a variety of lubricants with partner
8
Talk sexier to partner
9
Play with food and liquids whilst having sex with partner
10
Use flavoured lube with partner
Top 10: Already do that
1
Making love with partner with the lights on or off
2
Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partner
3
Have sex in a missionary position with partner
4
Tell jokes or funny stories with partner
5
Have breasts/nipples touched, sucked on or gently bitten by partner
6
Light kiss on the lips with partner
7
Spooning with partner
8
Touch partner’s genital areas with your hands
9
Watching a movie together or reading with partner
10
Receive a hand job or penis massage from partner
Top 10: Want more
1
Go on date nights with partner
2
Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee together
3
Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plans
4
Nice gestures between you and partner like leaving a nice note, message or compliment
5
Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugging
6
Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partner
7
Do shared activities with partner like exercise, cooking, gardening etc.
8
Exchange romantic ideas, dreams or fantasies with partner
9
Support each other in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including exercise, diet and sleep habits
10
Have deep/meaningful conversations with partner
Top 10: Want less
1
Have partner pull out
2
’69’ with partner
3
Keep clothing on whilst having sex with partner
4
Have sex ‘Reverse Cowgirl’ with partner
5
Put a condom on partner
6
Have sex ‘Doggy Style’ with partner
7
Have quick sex with partner
8
Have sex with partner in different rooms of the home
9
Have partner give me a lap dance
10
Have sex with partner in a ‘spooning’ position
Yes by category
1
Spiritual Bond
2
Communication
3
Intimacy
4
Post-Sex
5
Frequency/Time
6
Location
7
Foreplay
8
Romanticism
9
Sexual Positions
10
BDSM
11
Other
12
Toys
13
Media
14
Butt Stuff
No by category
1
Butt Stuff
2
Media
3
Intimacy
4
Communication
5
BDSM
6
Other
7
Toys
8
Spiritual Bond
9
Sexual Positions
10
Foreplay
11
Location
12
Frequency/Time
13
Romanticism
14
Post-Sex
Might be willing by category
1
Toys
2
Sexual Positions
3
BDSM
4
Media
5
Other
6
Location
7
Foreplay
8
Butt Stuff
9
Frequency/Time
10
Romanticism
11
Post-Sex
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Already do that by category
1
Romanticism
2
Foreplay
3
Post-Sex
4
Frequency/Time
5
Location
6
Other
7
Sexual Positions
8
Toys
9
BDSM
10
Butt Stuff
11
Media
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Want more by category
1
Romanticism
2
Post-Sex
3
Frequency/Time
4
Foreplay
5
Location
6
Sexual Positions
7
BDSM
8
Media
9
Other
10
Toys
11
Butt Stuff
12
Intimacy
13
Communication
14
Spiritual Bond
Want less by category
1
Location
2
Other
3
Toys
4
Frequency/Time
5
Foreplay
6
Sexual Positions
7
Media
8
Butt Stuff
9
Romanticism
10
BDSM
11
Post-Sex
12
Communication
13
Spiritual Bond
14
Intimacy
Top 10: Removed questions
1
Wear earplugs or headphones during sex with partner
2
Have partner wear nipple clamps
3
Celebrate successes with partner
4
Taking a nude video of each other
5
Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sex
6
Give partner a hickey
7
Have partner fist me
8
Roleplay in costumes with partner
9
Scratch partner during sex
10
Wear nipple clamps
Removed questions by category
1
Media
2
Communication
3
Other
4
Intimacy
5
BDSM
6
Romanticism
7
Toys
8
Foreplay
9
Spiritual Bond
10
Location
11
Frequency/Time
12
Sexual Positions
13
Butt Stuff
14
Post-Sex
Detailed Statistics
Communication
Do you think setting aside specific times to discuss intimacy with partner would improve your relationship
Would incorporating prayer with partner into discussions about sex improve your intimacy and sexual relationship
Do you feel communication could be improved in the sexual relationship you have with partner
Do you feel communication during sexual activity (signalling) with partner could be improved
Do you feel communication after sexual activity (exchanging likes and dislikes) with partner could be improved
Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sex
Do you feel like sometimes your boundaries are being pushed in your sexual relationship with partner
Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partner
Dropping hints that you are in the mood with one another could be improved
Communication to initiate sex or intimate activities could be improved
Spiritual Bond
Spending time in fellowship with friends or family could be improved
Our attendance at church could be improved
Forgiving one another or apologising could be improved
Reading the Bible with each other could be improved or done more frequently
Praying for each other individually could be improved
Prayer with partner could be improved or done more frequently
The spiritual connection when worshipping with partner could be improved
Intimacy
Do you feel the emotional connection to partner during intimate moments could be improved
Could more time be set aside to focus on your relationship and intimacy with partner
Do you sometimes not feel respected and valued during physical intimacy with partner
Are you open to exploring new ways to enhance your intimacy with partner within the boundaries of your faith
Do you feel seeking guidance from a pastor or Christian counsellor could improve the emotional or physical intimacy you have with partner
Do you believe your physical intimacy over time with partner has not improved
Do you feel the level of physical affection could be improved with partner
Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improved
Could physical intimacy be scheduled so you can both prepare mentally or physically
Romanticism
Exchange romantic ideas, dreams or fantasies with partner
Celebrate successes with partner
Have partner hover their hands over your body
Hover your hands over partner’s body
Gaze into partner’s eyes
More time relaxing with partner which might include prayer, meditation, yoga, mindfulness or deep breathing exercises
Support each other in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including exercise, diet and sleep habits
Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plans
Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partner
Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee together
Nice gestures between you and partner like leaving a nice note, message or compliment
Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugging
Do shared activities with partner like exercise, cooking, gardening etc.
Go on date nights with partner
Have a bath or shower with partner
Sensual or slow dancing with partner
Light kiss on the lips with partner
Have deep/meaningful conversations with partner
Work on projects or solve problems with partner
Tell jokes or funny stories with partner
Setting relationship goals for your marriage with partner
Setting goals for your family and life with partner
Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partner
Listen to romantic music, make music or sing with partner
Watching a movie together or reading with partner
Setting a romantic scene with or for partner which might include lighting candles, dimming the lights, placing rose petals on the bed etc.
Getting the temperature right which might include lighting a fire, turning on the air conditioning, fan or heater
Foreplay
Watch partner masturbate
Be watched by partner while I masturbate
Talk sexier to partner
Have partner talk sexier to me
Mutually masturbate with partner
Have partner nibble on my earlobes
Nibble partner’s earlobes
Have partner suck on my fingers
Have partner suck on my toes
Suck on partner’s fingers
Suck on partner’s toes
Give partner a lap dance
Have partner give me a lap dance
Have longer foreplay sessions with partner
Use flavoured lube with partner
Strip for partner
Have partner strip for me
Receive a sensual massage from partner
Give a sensual massage to partner
Keep clothing on whilst having sex with partner
Receive oral sex from partner
Give partner a foot job
Give oral sex to partner
Dress up in fancy clothes
Passionate kissing with partner
Play a sex game like dice, cards or strip poker with partner
Play with ice cubes or hot stones (temperature play) with partner
Wear lingerie/corset or a sexy outfit for partner
Wear a suit or outfit for partner
Have breasts/nipples touched, sucked on or gently bitten by partner
Rub/slide your genitals against one another
Naked wrestling or play fighting with partner
Spooning with partner
Have partner stimulate my G-spot or make me squirt
Making love with partner with the lights on or off
