A Free Sex Quiz for Christian Couples

Improve Intimacy

Improve the intimacy and sexual satisfaction with your partner. Deepen your connection or spice things up.

Designed by Christians for Christians

Designed with the assistance of expert sexologists, Christian marriage counsellors and church leaders.

The quiz aims to follow biblical principles. Using a level system and the ability to hide questions, you can see questions which are right for you and your partner.

Questions for Everyone

Accommodates Christian couples from different denominations and backgrounds through a customisable quiz design. There are 260 questions spanning 14 categories!

Fully Free

That’s right, no subscriptions, no joining fees, no upgrades, no ads, no marketing communication, no nothing! This is a not for profit venture.

Market Leading Privacy & Security

Our quiz encrypts all personal data and asks for the bare minimum personal information. Learn more here.

For Church Leaders

Church leaders, counsellors and other leaders can also create a question preset and share a unique link with their audience.

AI Analysis

You can also receive an AI analysis of your results to give you and your partner feedback and point out interesting things.

Relevant Resources

Need more help? We have a nice list of sexy Christian resources you can check out on our resources page. Or find a Christian counsellor.

Rich Statistics

Are you an academic, church leader or just plain curious? See top 10’s and detailed statistics on our statistics page.

Offline Mode

Don’t want to do the quiz online? No worries, print the quiz out and do it by hand. Learn more here.

What the congregation is saying:

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“The quiz helped me and my husband explore what we liked and to find common interests!”

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Preset: BDSM ⛓️

This preset has been used 0 times. Typically this preset takes: 4 minutes - 10 minutes to complete.

How it works

Step 1 Read the below terms first to make sure the quiz is right for you

Step 2 Choose how you would like to take the quiz using 1 of the 4 options.

Step 3 The husband does the quiz in private.

Step 4 The wife does the exact same quiz in private.

Step 5 A results screen will show with any answers that matched.

Step 6 Get jiggy with it 😉

To begin the quiz, first agree to these terms

Please check the checkbox to all terms that apply. If you can’t check all checkboxes, it is not recommended to take the quiz at this time.

We are married and over 18 years of age.
We understand the quiz contains text content of a sexual nature.
We understand that it's not recommended to take this quiz if either partner is in a vulnerable or fragile position when it comes to sexual issues or intimacy. We understand that it is best to seek a marriage counsellor or pastoral care to work through issues first before taking this quiz.
We are taking this quiz because we are keen to try new things and see what we have in common but may have had difficulty bringing up. We are both taking this quiz at our own free will without any pressure. We understand that this tool is not designed to fix or save our marriage. If there are pre-existing issues we will use the services of a Christian marriage counsellor first before taking the quiz. We are both taking this quiz because we are keen to serve our partners wishes above our own. Husbands please see Ephesians 5:25-27: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless."
We understand that it is essential to emphasise that the significance lies not in the quantity or variety of sexual activity, but in the quality and connection between both partners. Each act should be performed with an intentional sense of loving the other.
We understand that it is best to regularly check in with one another and communicate honestly to ensure both partners are happy - as needs and abilities may change over time. We will be loving and respectful of our partners wishes. We understand the results of the quiz are not a permission note; it is just a starting point to a more nuanced discussion of the results that is respectful and caring.
We recommend praying as a couple before doing the quiz. You might wish to invite God's guidance and wisdom. You could ask God to help you approach the quiz with honesty and a desire to understand one another better. That God may help deepen your intimacy and strengthen your bond, and that you will grow in love and respect for one another.
We understand that it's best to also read the FAQ's to answer any concerns before doing the quiz. We also agree to the Privacy Policy.

"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless."

Ephesians 5:25-27

There are 4 different ways to take the quiz because every couple is different!

The Level System (strongly recommended for new users)
It is recommended doing the the quiz based on what is appropriate for you and your partner using the level system:
- Level 1 is for getting started and covers things like communication, intimacy and some foreplay items.
- Level 2 covers more standard 'run-of-the-mill' sex positions and kinks.
- Level 3 covers more advanced sexual topics like BDSM, toys and butt play.
Even if level 3 is right for you, it is still a good idea to start from level 1 so you can cover all the questions. If you are unsure what level is appropriate for you, it is recommended taking the quick quiz here which will tell you what level you can work up to. Or alternatively you may wish to work with a Christian marriage counsellor to work through the quiz with you and your partner. It can't be emphasised enough that the levels are not an indication of how advanced or great you are as a couple! There are many married Christian couples who are happy and content with level 1 or just doing a couple of things, and that is fine. This is not a competition; it is all about what works for each couple. The level system is recommended because it exposes couples to content that is appropriate and relevant to them.
By Category/Interest
If you have come here before, you may wish to try some of the popular presets which are based on categories or popular combinations. Just click one of the buttons below.
Or you can do just a specific category.
Review the Questions
You or your partner may wish to review the questions first before you both do the quiz. You can do this by selecting "I would like to review the questions first..." for the review question in the form below. Or alternatively a Christian marriage counsellor or church leader can review the questions and then send you a preset link. If you were to do all the questions, it would take: 34 minutes - 1 hour & 18 minutes. If this is too long, we recommend choosing one of the levels or categories above.
Do all the Questions
If you have the time and you are both open to advanced sexual topics, you can do all 260 questions by selecting "I know the quiz..." for the review question in the form below. If you were to do all the questions, it would take: 34 minutes - 1 hour & 18 minutes. If this is too long, we recommend choosing one of the levels or categories above.

Alright, let's get jiggy with it! Join the 916 married Christian couples who have helped to improve their sex lives.

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A Free Sex Quiz for Christian Couples

You do the quiz, your partner does the quiz, then common interests and improvements are shown on the results page.

Improve Intimacy

Designed by Christians for Christians

Biblical Compliance

Questions for Everyone

Fully Free

Market Leading Privacy & Security

For Church Leaders

AI Analysis

Relevant Resources

Rich Statistics

Offline Mode

What the congregation is saying:

Preset: BDSM ⛓️

How it works

Step 1 Read the below terms first to make sure the quiz is right for you

Step 2 Choose how you would like to take the quiz using 1 of the 4 options.

Step 3 The husband does the quiz in private.

Step 4 The wife does the exact same quiz in private.

Step 5 A results screen will show with any answers that matched.

Step 6 Get jiggy with it 😉

To begin the quiz, first agree to these terms

There are 4 different ways to take the quiz because every couple is different!

Alright, let's get jiggy with it! Join the 916 married Christian couples who have helped to improve their sex lives.

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