Overview Statistics

From 130 Quizzes

With 10258 questions answered total with a 69% matching answer rate

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Where this data comes from

These statistics are for educational purposes only. There is no normal or average when it comes to sex. It doesn't matter what these statistics say, as long as you and your partner are happy that is all that matters!

  • Combined
  • Husbands 🍆
  • Wives 🍑
  • Top 10: Yes
    • 1
      Are you open to exploring new ways to enhance your intimacy with partner within the boundaries of your faithinformation icon
    • 2
      Do you feel communication could be improved in the sexual relationship you have with partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Do you think setting aside specific times to discuss intimacy with partner would improve your relationshipinformation icon
    • 4
      Could more time be set aside to focus on your relationship and intimacy with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Would incorporating prayer with partner into discussions about sex improve your intimacy and sexual relationshipinformation icon
    • 6
      Do you feel communication after sexual activity (exchanging likes and dislikes) with partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 7
      Do you feel communication during sexual activity (signalling) with partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 8
      Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 9
      Do you feel the level of physical affection could be improved with partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Give a sensual massage to partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: No
    • 1
      Do you feel like sometimes your boundaries are being pushed in your sexual relationship with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Do you sometimes not feel respected and valued during physical intimacy with partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sexinformation icon
    • 4
      Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Do you believe your physical intimacy over time with partner has not improvedinformation icon
    • 6
      Do you feel seeking guidance from a pastor or Christian counsellor could improve the emotional or physical intimacy you have with partnerinformation icon
    • 7
      Have partner suck on my fingersinformation icon
    • 8
      Being tickled or teased by partner with feathersinformation icon
    • 9
      Our attendance at church could be improvedinformation icon
    • 10
      Do you feel the emotional connection to partner during intimate moments could be improvedinformation icon
    Top 10: Might be willing
    • 1
      Tickling or teasing partner with feathersinformation icon
    • 2
      Douse ourselves in oil during sexinformation icon
    • 3
      Play with ice cubes or hot stones (temperature play) with partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Roleplay in costumes with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Be watched by partner while I masturbateinformation icon
    • 6
      Have partner wear a c*ck ring during sexinformation icon
    • 7
      Use a variety of lubricants with partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Strip for partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Talk sexier to partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Naked wrestling or play fighting with partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: Already do that
    • 1
      Making love with partner with the lights on or offinformation icon
    • 2
      Have sex in a missionary position with partner
    • 3
      Spooning with partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Have sex ‘Doggy Style’ with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Have breasts/nipples touched, sucked on or gently bitten by partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      Light kiss on the lips with partnerinformation icon
    • 7
      C*m inside partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Celebrate successes with partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Have deep/meaningful conversations with partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: Want more
    • 1
      Go on date nights with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugginginformation icon
    • 3
      Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee togetherinformation icon
    • 4
      Do shared activities with partner like exercise, cooking, gardening etc.information icon
    • 5
      Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plansinformation icon
    • 6
      Nice gestures between you and partner like leaving a nice note, message or complimentinformation icon
    • 7
      Support each other in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including exercise, diet and sleep habitsinformation icon
    • 8
      Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Exchange romantic ideas, dreams or fantasies with partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Have a bath or shower with partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: Want less
    • 1
      Have longer foreplay sessions with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Keep clothing on whilst having sex with partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Have sex with partner in different rooms of the homeinformation icon
    • 4
      Watch partner use sex toysinformation icon
    • 5
      Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee togetherinformation icon
    • 6
      Have partner give me a lap danceinformation icon
    • 7
      Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Have partner wear leather or latexinformation icon
    • 9
      Gaze into partner’s eyesinformation icon
    • 10
      Have partner hover their hands over your bodyinformation icon
    Yes by category
    • 1
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 2
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 3
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 4
      Frequency/Time
    • 5
      Post-Sex
    • 6
      Sexual Positions
    • 7
      Location
    • 8
      Foreplay
    • 9
      Toysinformation icon
    • 10
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 11
      Other
    • 12
      Romanticism
    • 13
      Mediainformation icon
    • 14
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    No by category
    • 1
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 2
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 3
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 4
      Mediainformation icon
    • 5
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 6
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 7
      Other
    • 8
      Toysinformation icon
    • 9
      Foreplay
    • 10
      Location
    • 11
      Frequency/Time
    • 12
      Sexual Positions
    • 13
      Romanticism
    • 14
      Post-Sex
    Might be willing by category
    • 1
      Toysinformation icon
    • 2
      Sexual Positions
    • 3
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 4
      Mediainformation icon
    • 5
      Other
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Foreplay
    • 8
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 9
      Frequency/Time
    • 10
      Romanticism
    • 11
      Post-Sex
    • 12
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Intimacyinformation icon
    Already do that by category
    • 1
      Romanticism
    • 2
      Post-Sex
    • 3
      Foreplay
    • 4
      Frequency/Time
    • 5
      Other
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Sexual Positions
    • 8
      Toysinformation icon
    • 9
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 10
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 11
      Mediainformation icon
    • 12
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Intimacyinformation icon
    Want more by category
    • 1
      Romanticism
    • 2
      Post-Sex
    • 3
      Frequency/Time
    • 4
      Foreplay
    • 5
      Location
    • 6
      Mediainformation icon
    • 7
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 8
      Other
    • 9
      Sexual Positions
    • 10
      Toysinformation icon
    • 11
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 12
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 13
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 14
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    Want less by category
    • 1
      Toysinformation icon
    • 2
      Romanticism
    • 3
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 4
      Foreplay
    • 5
      Post-Sex
    • 6
      Other
    • 7
      Frequency/Time
    • 8
      Location
    • 9
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 10
      Mediainformation icon
    • 11
      Sexual Positions
    • 12
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Intimacyinformation icon
    Top 10: Removed questions
    • 1
      Douse ourselves in oil during sexinformation icon
    • 2
      Be shaven by partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Have sex with my legs on partner shoulders
    • 4
      Taking naked photos of each otherinformation icon
    • 5
      Taking a nude video of each otherinformation icon
    • 6
      Taking pictures of us whilst having sexinformation icon
    • 7
      Use long-distance sex toys with partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Receive analingus from partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Shave partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Give partner analingusinformation icon
    Removed questions by category
    • 1
      Mediainformation icon
    • 2
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 3
      Other
    • 4
      Toysinformation icon
    • 5
      Sexual Positions
    • 6
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 7
      Foreplay
    • 8
      Location
    • 9
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 10
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 11
      Frequency/Time
    • 12
      Romanticism
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Post-Sex
  • Top 10: Yes
    • 1
      Do you feel communication could be improved in the sexual relationship you have with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Are you open to exploring new ways to enhance your intimacy with partner within the boundaries of your faithinformation icon
    • 3
      Do you think setting aside specific times to discuss intimacy with partner would improve your relationshipinformation icon
    • 4
      Could more time be set aside to focus on your relationship and intimacy with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Do you feel communication during sexual activity (signalling) with partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 6
      Do you feel communication after sexual activity (exchanging likes and dislikes) with partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 7
      Would incorporating prayer with partner into discussions about sex improve your intimacy and sexual relationshipinformation icon
    • 8
      Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 9
      Slowly undress partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Give a sensual massage to partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: No
    • 1
      Do you feel like sometimes your boundaries are being pushed in your sexual relationship with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sexinformation icon
    • 4
      Do you sometimes not feel respected and valued during physical intimacy with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Do you feel seeking guidance from a pastor or Christian counsellor could improve the emotional or physical intimacy you have with partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      Do you believe your physical intimacy over time with partner has not improvedinformation icon
    • 7
      Do you feel the emotional connection to partner during intimate moments could be improvedinformation icon
    • 8
      Have partner suck on my fingersinformation icon
    • 9
      Being tickled or teased by partner with feathersinformation icon
    • 10
      Wear leather or latex during sex with partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: Might be willing
    • 1
      Tickling or teasing partner with feathersinformation icon
    • 2
      Roleplay in costumes with partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Douse ourselves in oil during sexinformation icon
    • 4
      Dress up in fancy clothesinformation icon
    • 5
      Play with ice cubes or hot stones (temperature play) with partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      Be watched by partner while I masturbateinformation icon
    • 7
      Have partner wear a c*ck ring during sexinformation icon
    • 8
      Have partner’s mouth covered during sexinformation icon
    • 9
      Suck on partner’s fingersinformation icon
    • 10
      Strip for partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: Already do that
    • 1
      Making love with partner with the lights on or offinformation icon
    • 2
      Have sex in a missionary position with partner
    • 3
      Have deep/meaningful conversations with partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Celebrate successes with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Have sex ‘Doggy Style’ with partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      C*m inside partnerinformation icon
    • 7
      Light kiss on the lips with partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Spooning with partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugginginformation icon
    Top 10: Want more
    • 1
      Go on date nights with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugginginformation icon
    • 3
      Have a bath or shower with partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Support each other in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including exercise, diet and sleep habitsinformation icon
    • 5
      Exchange romantic ideas, dreams or fantasies with partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee togetherinformation icon
    • 7
      Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plansinformation icon
    • 9
      Passionate kissing with partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Do shared activities with partner like exercise, cooking, gardening etc.information icon
    Top 10: Want less
    • 1
      Receive a hickey from partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee togetherinformation icon
    • 3
      Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plansinformation icon
    • 5
      Keep clothing on whilst having sex with partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      Receive a sensual massage from partnerinformation icon
    • 7
      Light kiss on the lips with partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Have partner hover their hands over your bodyinformation icon
    • 9
      Go on date nights with partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugginginformation icon
    Yes by category
    • 1
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 2
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 3
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 4
      Sexual Positions
    • 5
      Frequency/Time
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Foreplay
    • 8
      Post-Sex
    • 9
      Toysinformation icon
    • 10
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 11
      Other
    • 12
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 13
      Mediainformation icon
    • 14
      Romanticism
    No by category
    • 1
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 2
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 3
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 4
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 5
      Mediainformation icon
    • 6
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 7
      Other
    • 8
      Toysinformation icon
    • 9
      Foreplay
    • 10
      Location
    • 11
      Frequency/Time
    • 12
      Sexual Positions
    • 13
      Romanticism
    • 14
      Post-Sex
    Might be willing by category
    • 1
      Toysinformation icon
    • 2
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 3
      Sexual Positions
    • 4
      Mediainformation icon
    • 5
      Other
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Foreplay
    • 8
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 9
      Romanticism
    • 10
      Post-Sex
    • 11
      Frequency/Time
    • 12
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Intimacyinformation icon
    Already do that by category
    • 1
      Romanticism
    • 2
      Post-Sex
    • 3
      Other
    • 4
      Frequency/Time
    • 5
      Foreplay
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Sexual Positions
    • 8
      Toysinformation icon
    • 9
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 10
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 11
      Mediainformation icon
    • 12
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Intimacyinformation icon
    Want more by category
    • 1
      Romanticism
    • 2
      Post-Sex
    • 3
      Frequency/Time
    • 4
      Foreplay
    • 5
      Location
    • 6
      Mediainformation icon
    • 7
      Other
    • 8
      Sexual Positions
    • 9
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 10
      Toysinformation icon
    • 11
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 12
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 13
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 14
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    Want less by category
    • 1
      Romanticism
    • 2
      Post-Sex
    • 3
      Frequency/Time
    • 4
      Foreplay
    • 5
      Toysinformation icon
    • 6
      Other
    • 7
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 8
      Mediainformation icon
    • 9
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 10
      Location
    • 11
      Sexual Positions
    • 12
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Intimacyinformation icon
    Top 10: Removed questions
    • 1
      Have sex with my legs on partner shoulders
    • 2
      Receive analingus from partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Give partner analingusinformation icon
    • 4
      Douse ourselves in oil during sexinformation icon
    • 5
      Be shaven by partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      Explore anally stimulating partnerinformation icon
    • 7
      Explore having partner anally stimulate youinformation icon
    • 8
      Have sex standing up with partner
    • 9
      Taking naked photos of each otherinformation icon
    • 10
      ’69’ with partnerinformation icon
    Removed questions by category
    • 1
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 2
      Mediainformation icon
    • 3
      Other
    • 4
      Toysinformation icon
    • 5
      Sexual Positions
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Foreplay
    • 8
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 9
      Frequency/Time
    • 10
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 11
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 12
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 13
      Romanticism
    • 14
      Post-Sex
  • Top 10: Yes
    • 1
      Are you open to exploring new ways to enhance your intimacy with partner within the boundaries of your faithinformation icon
    • 2
      Do you think setting aside specific times to discuss intimacy with partner would improve your relationshipinformation icon
    • 3
      Do you feel communication could be improved in the sexual relationship you have with partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Could more time be set aside to focus on your relationship and intimacy with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Would incorporating prayer with partner into discussions about sex improve your intimacy and sexual relationshipinformation icon
    • 6
      Do you feel communication after sexual activity (exchanging likes and dislikes) with partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 7
      Do you feel communication during sexual activity (signalling) with partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 8
      Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 9
      Do you feel the level of physical affection could be improved with partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Do you feel the emotional connection to partner during intimate moments could be improvedinformation icon
    Top 10: No
    • 1
      Do you feel like sometimes your boundaries are being pushed in your sexual relationship with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Do you sometimes not feel respected and valued during physical intimacy with partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Do you believe your physical intimacy over time with partner has not improvedinformation icon
    • 4
      Do you feel seeking guidance from a pastor or Christian counsellor could improve the emotional or physical intimacy you have with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sexinformation icon
    • 6
      Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partnerinformation icon
    • 7
      Have partner suck on my fingersinformation icon
    • 8
      Give partner analingusinformation icon
    • 9
      Suck on partner’s fingersinformation icon
    • 10
      Suck on partner’s toesinformation icon
    Top 10: Might be willing
    • 1
      Talk sexier to partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Douse ourselves in oil during sexinformation icon
    • 3
      Play with ice cubes or hot stones (temperature play) with partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Use a variety of lubricants with partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Tickling or teasing partner with feathersinformation icon
    • 6
      Use a clitoris sucker toy on partnerinformation icon
    • 7
      Have partner wear a c*ck ring during sexinformation icon
    • 8
      Be watched by partner while I masturbateinformation icon
    • 9
      Strip for partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Use flavoured lube with partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: Already do that
    • 1
      Making love with partner with the lights on or offinformation icon
    • 2
      Spooning with partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Have sex in a missionary position with partner
    • 4
      Have breasts/nipples touched, sucked on or gently bitten by partnerinformation icon
    • 5
      Gaze into partner’s eyesinformation icon
    • 6
      Receive a hand job or penis massage from partnerinformation icon
    • 7
      Receive kisses from partner on the neck or other parts of the bodyinformation icon
    • 8
      Have sex ‘Doggy Style’ with partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partnerinformation icon
    • 10
      Touch partner’s genital areas with your handsinformation icon
    Top 10: Want more
    • 1
      Go on date nights with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee togetherinformation icon
    • 3
      Do shared activities with partner like exercise, cooking, gardening etc.information icon
    • 4
      Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugginginformation icon
    • 5
      Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plansinformation icon
    • 6
      Nice gestures between you and partner like leaving a nice note, message or complimentinformation icon
    • 7
      Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Receive a sensual massage from partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Support each other in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including exercise, diet and sleep habitsinformation icon
    • 10
      Have deep/meaningful conversations with partnerinformation icon
    Top 10: Want less
    • 1
      Have longer foreplay sessions with partnerinformation icon
    • 2
      Have partner wear leather or latexinformation icon
    • 3
      Keep clothing on whilst having sex with partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Have sex with partner in different rooms of the homeinformation icon
    • 5
      Use dildos during sex with partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      Have sex with partner in a ‘spooning’ position
    • 7
      Finger partner anallyinformation icon
    • 8
      Use vibrators while having sex with partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Gaze into partner’s eyesinformation icon
    • 10
      Use a clitoris sucker toy on partnerinformation icon
    Yes by category
    • 1
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 2
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 3
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 4
      Post-Sex
    • 5
      Frequency/Time
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Sexual Positions
    • 8
      Foreplay
    • 9
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 10
      Toysinformation icon
    • 11
      Romanticism
    • 12
      Other
    • 13
      Mediainformation icon
    • 14
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    No by category
    • 1
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 2
      Mediainformation icon
    • 3
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 4
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 5
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 6
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 7
      Other
    • 8
      Toysinformation icon
    • 9
      Location
    • 10
      Foreplay
    • 11
      Sexual Positions
    • 12
      Frequency/Time
    • 13
      Romanticism
    • 14
      Post-Sex
    Might be willing by category
    • 1
      Toysinformation icon
    • 2
      Sexual Positions
    • 3
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 4
      Other
    • 5
      Mediainformation icon
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Foreplay
    • 8
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 9
      Frequency/Time
    • 10
      Romanticism
    • 11
      Post-Sex
    • 12
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Intimacyinformation icon
    Already do that by category
    • 1
      Romanticism
    • 2
      Foreplay
    • 3
      Post-Sex
    • 4
      Frequency/Time
    • 5
      Other
    • 6
      Location
    • 7
      Sexual Positions
    • 8
      Toysinformation icon
    • 9
      Mediainformation icon
    • 10
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 11
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 12
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 13
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 14
      Intimacyinformation icon
    Want more by category
    • 1
      Romanticism
    • 2
      Post-Sex
    • 3
      Foreplay
    • 4
      Frequency/Time
    • 5
      Location
    • 6
      Mediainformation icon
    • 7
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 8
      Sexual Positions
    • 9
      Other
    • 10
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 11
      Toysinformation icon
    • 12
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 13
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 14
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    Want less by category
    • 1
      Toysinformation icon
    • 2
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 3
      Location
    • 4
      Foreplay
    • 5
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 6
      Other
    • 7
      Sexual Positions
    • 8
      Romanticism
    • 9
      Mediainformation icon
    • 10
      Frequency/Time
    • 11
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 12
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 13
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 14
      Post-Sex
    Top 10: Removed questions
    • 1
      Have partner hover their hands over your bodyinformation icon
    • 2
      Phone sex with partnerinformation icon
    • 3
      Be dominant/assertive towards partnerinformation icon
    • 4
      Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improvedinformation icon
    • 5
      Use long-distance sex toys with partnerinformation icon
    • 6
      Hover your hands over partner’s bodyinformation icon
    • 7
      Video chat sex with partnerinformation icon
    • 8
      Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partnerinformation icon
    • 9
      Have partner be dominant/assertive towards meinformation icon
    • 10
      Be more vocal towards partner during sexinformation icon
    Removed questions by category
    • 1
      Mediainformation icon
    • 2
      Communicationinformation icon
    • 3
      Other
    • 4
      Intimacyinformation icon
    • 5
      BDSMinformation icon
    • 6
      Romanticism
    • 7
      Toysinformation icon
    • 8
      Foreplay
    • 9
      Spiritual Bondinformation icon
    • 10
      Location
    • 11
      Frequency/Time
    • 12
      Sexual Positions
    • 13
      Butt Stuffinformation icon
    • 14
      Post-Sex

Detailed Statistics

Communicationinformation icon

Do you think setting aside specific times to discuss intimacy with partner would improve your relationshipinformation icon
Would incorporating prayer with partner into discussions about sex improve your intimacy and sexual relationshipinformation icon
Do you feel communication could be improved in the sexual relationship you have with partnerinformation icon
Do you feel communication during sexual activity (signalling) with partner could be improvedinformation icon
Do you feel communication after sexual activity (exchanging likes and dislikes) with partner could be improvedinformation icon
Are there any past experiences that make you feel uncomfortable during sexinformation icon
Do you feel like sometimes your boundaries are being pushed in your sexual relationship with partnerinformation icon
Have you ever felt pressured to engage in sexual activity when you weren’t in the mood with partnerinformation icon
Dropping hints that you are in the mood with one another could be improvedinformation icon
Communication to initiate sex or intimate activities could be improvedinformation icon

Spiritual Bondinformation icon

Spending time in fellowship with friends or family could be improvedinformation icon
Our attendance at church could be improvedinformation icon
Forgiving one another or apologising could be improvedinformation icon
Reading the Bible with each other could be improved or done more frequentlyinformation icon
Praying for each other individually could be improvedinformation icon
Prayer with partner could be improved or done more frequentlyinformation icon
The spiritual connection when worshipping with partner could be improvedinformation icon

Intimacyinformation icon

Do you feel the emotional connection to partner during intimate moments could be improvedinformation icon
Could more time be set aside to focus on your relationship and intimacy with partnerinformation icon
Do you sometimes not feel respected and valued during physical intimacy with partnerinformation icon
Are you open to exploring new ways to enhance your intimacy with partner within the boundaries of your faithinformation icon
Do you feel seeking guidance from a pastor or Christian counsellor could improve the emotional or physical intimacy you have with partnerinformation icon
Do you believe your physical intimacy over time with partner has not improvedinformation icon
Do you feel the level of physical affection could be improved with partnerinformation icon
Do you feel that the sexual intimacy between you and partner could be improvedinformation icon
Could physical intimacy be scheduled so you can both prepare mentally or physicallyinformation icon

Romanticism

Exchange romantic ideas, dreams or fantasies with partnerinformation icon
Celebrate successes with partnerinformation icon
Have partner hover their hands over your bodyinformation icon
Hover your hands over partner’s bodyinformation icon
Gaze into partner’s eyesinformation icon
More time relaxing with partner which might include prayer, meditation, yoga, mindfulness or deep breathing exercisesinformation icon
Support each other in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including exercise, diet and sleep habitsinformation icon
Surprise each other with thoughtful gestures or spontaneous plansinformation icon
Going on holiday or exploring a new part of town with partnerinformation icon
Daily rituals with partner like morning or evening walks or having tea or coffee togetherinformation icon
Nice gestures between you and partner like leaving a nice note, message or complimentinformation icon
Non-sexual touch with partner like holding hands, cuddling or hugginginformation icon
Do shared activities with partner like exercise, cooking, gardening etc.information icon
Go on date nights with partnerinformation icon
Have a bath or shower with partnerinformation icon
Sensual or slow dancing with partnerinformation icon
Light kiss on the lips with partnerinformation icon
Have deep/meaningful conversations with partnerinformation icon
Work on projects or solve problems with partnerinformation icon
Tell jokes or funny stories with partnerinformation icon
Setting relationship goals for your marriage with partnerinformation icon
Setting goals for your family and life with partnerinformation icon
Do household chores, look after the children or run errands with partnerinformation icon
Listen to romantic music, make music or sing with partnerinformation icon
Watching a movie together or reading with partnerinformation icon
Setting a romantic scene with or for partner which might include lighting candles, dimming the lights, placing rose petals on the bed etc.information icon
Getting the temperature right which might include lighting a fire, turning on the air conditioning, fan or heaterinformation icon

Foreplay

Watch partner masturbateinformation icon
Be watched by partner while I masturbateinformation icon
Talk sexier to partnerinformation icon
Have partner talk sexier to meinformation icon
Mutually masturbate with partnerinformation icon
Have partner nibble on my earlobesinformation icon
Nibble partner’s earlobesinformation icon
Have partner suck on my fingersinformation icon
Have partner suck on my toesinformation icon
Suck on partner’s fingersinformation icon
Suck on partner’s toesinformation icon
Give partner a lap danceinformation icon
Have partner give me a lap danceinformation icon
Have longer foreplay sessions with partnerinformation icon
Use flavoured lube with partnerinformation icon
Strip for partnerinformation icon
Have partner strip for meinformation icon
Receive a sensual massage from partnerinformation icon
Give a sensual massage to partnerinformation icon
Keep clothing on whilst having sex with partnerinformation icon
Receive oral sex from partnerinformation icon
Give partner a foot jobinformation icon
Give oral sex to partnerinformation icon
Dress up in fancy clothesinformation icon
Passionate kissing with partnerinformation icon
Play a sex game like dice, cards or strip poker with partnerinformation icon
Play with ice cubes or hot stones (temperature play) with partnerinformation icon
Wear lingerie/corset or a sexy outfit for partnerinformation icon
Wear a suit or outfit for partnerinformation icon
Have breasts/nipples touched, sucked on or gently bitten by partnerinformation icon
Rub/slide your genitals against one anotherinformation icon
Naked wrestling or play fighting with partnerinformation icon
Spooning with partnerinformation icon
Have partner stimulate my G-spot or make me squirtinformation icon
Making love with partner with the lights on or offinformation icon
Use a variety of lubricants with partnerinformation icon
Receive a hand job or penis massage from partnerinformation icon
Have partner slowly undress meinformation icon
Slowly undress partnerinformation icon
Get genital areas touched by partnerinformation icon
Touch partner’s genital areas with your handsinformation icon
Receive a hickey from partnerinformation icon
Give partner a hickeyinformation icon
Receive kisses from partner on the neck or other parts of the bodyinformation icon
Kiss partner on the neck or other parts of the bodyinformation icon
Have partner lick different parts of my bodyinformation icon
Lick different parts of partner’s bodyinformation icon
Have partner thrust his c*ck between my breastsinformation icon
Sit on partner’s face and be given oral sexinformation icon
Have partner sit on my face as I give oral sexinformation icon
Have partner play with my ballsinformation icon
Get fingered by partnerinformation icon
Touch partner affectionately without askinginformation icon
Be touched by partner affectionately without askinginformation icon
Go skinny dipping with partnerinformation icon

Location

Stay at a hotel with partner and have sexinformation icon
Have sex in the shower with partnerinformation icon
Have sex with partner in front of a mirrorinformation icon
Have sex with partner in different rooms of the homeinformation icon
Have sex with partner in a car (in a secure location)information icon
Have sex outside with partnerinformation icon
Have foreplay with partner whilst watching TVinformation icon
Have sex in a very hot or cold environment with partnerinformation icon
Touch partner affectionately in publicinformation icon
Be touched by partner affectionately in publicinformation icon
Have sex in a pool or hot tub with partnerinformation icon
Have sex with partner with the room dark or completely darkinformation icon
Have sex with partner with the lights on or in a bright environmentinformation icon
Have sex in a sauna with partnerinformation icon

Frequency/Time

Have sex multiple times in a row with partnerinformation icon
Have sex more often with partnerinformation icon
Have morning sex with partnerinformation icon
Be woken up with sex or oral sex by partnerinformation icon
Wake partner up with sex or oral sexinformation icon
Have quick sex with partnerinformation icon
Have slow and sensual sex with partnerinformation icon
Sex during periodinformation icon
Have sex with partner on special occasions like birthdays or Christmasinformation icon
Have spontaneous sex with partnerinformation icon
Have scheduled sex with partnerinformation icon

Sexual Positions

Have sex in a missionary position with partner
Have sex ‘Doggy Style’ with partnerinformation icon
Have sex ‘Reverse Cowgirl’ with partnerinformation icon
Have sex with my legs on partner shoulders
’69’ with partnerinformation icon
Have sex standing up with partner
Have sex ‘Cowgirl’ with partner
Have sex with partner in a ‘spooning’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘sagittarius’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘victory’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘jack and rose’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘dog chair’ position
Have sex with partner in a kneeling position
Have sex with partner in the sideways ‘wheel burrow’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘arch’ position
Having sex with partner in a squatting position
Having sex with partner in a reverse ‘yourself on the shelf’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘chairman’ position
Have sex with partner in a ‘face-off’ position
Have sex with partner in a leaning ‘reverse cowgirl’ position
Have sex with partner in a ‘rider astride’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘quicker picker upper’ position
Have sex with partner in a standing ’69’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘restroom attendant’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘wheelbarrow’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘iron chef’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘ballet dancer’ position
Have sex with partner in a ‘butter churner’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘flatiron’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘yourself on the shelf’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘happy baby’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘socket’ position
Have sex with partner in a ‘pretzel’ position
Have sex with partner in a ‘pearly gates’ position
Have sex with partner in a ‘saddle’ position
Have sex with partner in a leaning ‘cowgirl’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘cowboy’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘leapfrog’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘mountain climber’ position
Have sex with partner in the ‘captain’ position
Explore different sex positions with a book/guide with partnerinformation icon

Mediainformation icon

Taking pictures of us whilst having sexinformation icon
Creating a video of us having sexinformation icon
Taking a nude video of each otherinformation icon
Taking naked photos of each otherinformation icon
Video chat sex with partnerinformation icon
Sexting partnerinformation icon
Phone sex with partnerinformation icon
Writing a sexual story for partnerinformation icon
Have partner write a sexual story for meinformation icon
Listen to music while having sex with partnerinformation icon

Toysinformation icon

Have partner wear a c*ck ring during sexinformation icon
Have sex with the aid of a sex pillow, wedge, stool, bench or erotic chair with partnerinformation icon
Use vibrators while having sex with partnerinformation icon
Use dildos during sex with partnerinformation icon
Use a clitoris sucker toy on partnerinformation icon
Have partner watch me use sex toysinformation icon
Watch partner use sex toysinformation icon
Use long-distance sex toys with partnerinformation icon
Have sex using a sex swing or sling with partnerinformation icon

Butt Stuffinformation icon

Explore having partner anally stimulate youinformation icon
Explore anally stimulating partnerinformation icon
Receive analingus from partnerinformation icon
Give partner analingusinformation icon
Get fingered anally by partnerinformation icon
Finger partner anallyinformation icon
Have partner use a butt plug during sexinformation icon
Use a butt plug during sex with partnerinformation icon
Have partner use anal beads during sexinformation icon
Use a anal beads during sex with partnerinformation icon

BDSMinformation icon

Wear leather or latex during sex with partnerinformation icon
Have partner wear leather or latexinformation icon
Have partner edge youinformation icon
Edge partnerinformation icon
Have partner’s mouth covered during sexinformation icon
Have your mouth covered during sex with partnerinformation icon
Be scratched by partner during sexinformation icon
Scratch partner during sexinformation icon
Have partner wear nipple clampsinformation icon
Wear nipple clampsinformation icon
Be dominant/assertive towards partnerinformation icon
Have partner be dominant/assertive towards meinformation icon
Gently bite partnerinformation icon
Be gently bitten by partnerinformation icon
Be gently spanked/slapped by partner’s handinformation icon
Gently spank/slap partner with your handinformation icon
Gently pull partner’s hairinformation icon
Have my hair gently pulled by partnerinformation icon
Have partner hold my wrists during sexinformation icon
Hold partner’s wrists during sexinformation icon
Have partner tie me down or restrain me during sex with handcuffsinformation icon
Tie down or restrain partner with handcuffs during sexinformation icon
Blindfold partnerinformation icon
Be blindfolded by partnerinformation icon
Wear earplugs or headphones during sex with partnerinformation icon
Have partner pound me during intercourseinformation icon
Ravish partnerinformation icon
Have partner ravish meinformation icon
Tickling or teasing partner with feathersinformation icon
Being tickled or teased by partner with feathersinformation icon
Deny partner from having an orgasm (orgasm denial)information icon
Have partner deny me an orgasm (orgasm denial)information icon
Be submissive towards partnerinformation icon
Have partner be submissive towards meinformation icon
Have my movement restricted by partner using ropes or a ribboninformation icon
Restrict partner’s movement using ropes or a ribboninformation icon

Other

Be rougher during sex towards partnerinformation icon
Have partner be rougher to me during sexinformation icon
Have partner c*m over my neck, breasts or stomachinformation icon
Play with food and liquids whilst having sex with partnerinformation icon
Swallow partner’s c*minformation icon
Roleplay in costumes with partnerinformation icon
Douse ourselves in oil during sexinformation icon
Be more vocal towards partner during sexinformation icon
Have partner be more vocalinformation icon
C*m inside partnerinformation icon
Have partner pull outinformation icon
Shave partnerinformation icon
Be shaven by partnerinformation icon
Have partner fist meinformation icon
Use body paint or wax with partnerinformation icon
Put a condom on partnerinformation icon
Apply lubrication on partnerinformation icon
Have partner apply lubrication on meinformation icon

Post-Sex

Cuddle with partner after sexinformation icon
Have a post-sex shower with partnerinformation icon
Share what you liked, what could be improved or any ideas after sex with partnerinformation icon
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